Their words hit me harder than if someone had physically punched me in the belly. My insides reacted very strongly as my mind tried to process and understand the question and the fact that they referred to Spike as a “that”.
Frog Prince kissing? |
Were they enquiring about his genetic make-up or were they so
entranced with his aura that they wanted to know what more about the being that
stood before them?
As I processed the question in my mind I thought about our
life with Spike.
Spike is like no other dog I have ever known or shared my
life with. He frustrates me, annoys me
and yet he continues to inspire every day.
Spike is a product of selfish humans, a puppy born of
questionable parentage and almost definitely arrived in this world with no
forethought to his future. We will never
know what became of his brothers and sisters or his mum. I doubt they still live amongst us but in my
mind they watch Spike from above and share his experiences as if they were their
own with little smiles upon their faces.
Spike the lap dog |
I would love to say that Spike is a very generous and kind
hearted dude and that he thinks of his brothers and sisters and his mum every
day, dreaming that one day they will meet again.
But Spike is a dog, he does not think like a human, he
thinks like a dog and lives life like a dog.
However, he may well be “just a dog”, but he is a very
special dog with phenomenal self-survival skills and an attitude to life that
is inspirational.
All of Spike’s joints are deformed, they don’t fit together
properly. He has had the best medical
care and we know the full facts from the CT scans and x-rays. But Spike defies medical logic and refuses to
follow conventional veterinary advice.
He is Spike, and he will jump and run and have fun because he wants to
and because he can.
Every day we question whether he should run or not, we worry
about his well-being and the deterioration within his joints. He sticks his two little toes up at us and
tells us he will run. He is Spike and he
knows best about what he wants.
Manga Spike |
He has very large ears and a rather unusual shape of head. His lower jaw protrudes in the way that a bull
dogs does and his teeth have big spaces between them. His paws are massive and when not running he
stands on tip toes to ease the pressure on his elbows. He also stands on three legs, not happy to
fully weight bear on the hind leg that was operated on. Fully recovered from the TPLO surgery it is degrading HD and subluxation in his left hip joint that causes him discomfort.
He refuses to come to us when we call. Why should he, his approach to life is far
more exciting than ours. We try to stop
him having fun. He is Spike and he will
do whatever he wants because life is all about having fun.
He does not want to eat venison, lamb or game. He would much prefer to eat bananas, cottage
cheese, porridge and potato. He is Spike
and mush apparently is best!
He is obsessed with horses, I understand that one, but I would rather kiss their noses rather than nip them!
He has the most amazing blue eyes and they are a doorway
into his mood. When he is happy his eyes
shine and he smiles, when he is sad or in pain they darken. He has a fabulous cheeky little grin, which
is best demonstrated when he is intentionally trying to evoke a reaction from
me! His biggest smiles can be seen when he runs alongside our Siberian Huskies,
when he is truly part of the team.
Spike is a very sweet natured dog, but he does have very
strong survival instincts. When I and
Ian are with him he never shows any aggression, he knows and trusts us to
protect or help him. The last two times
we had to leave him at a veterinary surgery he turned into a furry velociraptor. One time his special Vet friend helped him and
the other time he had to be heavily sedated before he could be safely handled.
Spike also has many quirky ways. He will stop on a path if
vegetation has overgrown or a twig has fallen on it. He waits for us to move the obstruction or
follow us if we walk though or over. If
he sees a cat on a drive one day, from that point forth he is absolutely
convinced that it will be there every time.
He throws strops when you ask him to walk away from the cows or the pigs
before he is ready to say goodbye. He finds
it hard to adapt if we move items in the house or change something and shows
visible evidence of stress.
Spike running in the team |
Spike is very special in so many ways. I don’t know what and who made him, but I don’t need to understand how special he is. As
I type this I acknowledge that Spike has just broken one of our well establishes
house rules and now lies on the sofa beside me...
He stayed for all of one minute before the boss dog of the house reminded him of house rules. Spike may well be Spike but when it comes to talking dog he understands and respects the other dogs in the house. The boss dog of the house is his hero and thankfully his hero knows this and chooses to helps us humans by reinforcing the rules in the way he best understands.
He stayed for all of one minute before the boss dog of the house reminded him of house rules. Spike may well be Spike but when it comes to talking dog he understands and respects the other dogs in the house. The boss dog of the house is his hero and thankfully his hero knows this and chooses to helps us humans by reinforcing the rules in the way he best understands.
So how did I respond to the person that asked me the
question that provoked a thousand thoughts? I smiled and said....
“His name is Spike and he is our very special husky”.
(all images taken by Ian J Berry and me)